Back in the day when I first started having sex with Red, I was a very trusting girlfriend. Legs spread with abandon, I had total trust that he'd never hurt me.
Wrong-O! One day, while enjoying an afternoon sexy-time session, Red got a little too eager. He withdrew all the way and went to insert quickly- only he inserted into the wrong hole. Yes, that's right, folks. I was anally raped.
It hurt. I bled. He was embarrassed. I didn't walk right for a couple days. It was not even a remotely enjoyable experience. So ever since I've been very gun shy about Anal, despite my love for and comfort with sex.
But, with that said, I've always been very curious about it. Red, later in our relationship, would ask for it, and I always used the excuse "I have to save something that will be new when we're married!" It held him off for a while, but obviously we're not ever seeing each other again, let alone getting married. (Not to suggest that we broke up because I wouldn't have anal sex, that would be silly!)
Bass was never interested in it, so I didn't even have to wax-poetic about why I wouldn't do it. The other couple of guys that I've slept with have gotten the rules told to them (1- No Glove No Love, 2- If you want to receive you have to give, and 3- There are entrance holes and exit holes, don't confuse them) and have gone along with them. But none of them lasted long enough for it to matter.
But when I mentioned the rules to Achoo, I thought I detected a twinge of disappointment when I said no anal. So it's gotten me thinking, should I reconsider my stance? (I'd like to point out that I will NEVER have anal sex just to keep a guy interested. I'm just simply thinking about it!)
I understand the mechanics, using lots of lube and going slow, warming up with a finger first. But here is the part that BAFFLES me: WHAT HAPPENS TO THE POOP?!?!?! Does it get jammed back up in there? Does it get on his finger/dick? Won't he then realize that I do sometimes poop and fart! Ahhhh! I don't think I could handle that.
Queens, who may or may not have dabbled in the art of butt-love, says that Poop Happens sometimes, not every time. She also says that she doesn't really enjoy it.
So I don't know what to do or think. Part of me thinks its kind of hot and wants to try it, part of me (the part that was anally raped) is scared to.
What are your thoughts on Anal sex? Yea or Nay? Any help with my poop conundrum?